Pee Wee’s Big Midwestern Adventure 2

Pre-pandemic I took a trip to the Midwest with my oldest son, and I named it after one of my favorite movies of all time, Pee Wee’s Big Adventure. Some time after, I saw Paul Rubens live and listened to him talk about behind-the-scenes moments and other PWBA trivia. Although our seats were so high my vertigo kicked in, it was a magical night.

Now here we are, nearly post-pandemic (praise be!), and I took another trip back to the Midwest with my youngest son. Here’s how it went…

DISCLAIMER: If you can’t make fun of someone, you don’t really love them.

My Weird Family

Turns out, 2021 is the year of the cicada, which come out from their underground dirt tombs every 17 years. They’re gross and loud and I hate them. But they do mark the trip chronologically.

Hear me scream at the start of the video when a cicada lands on me. They’re closer to the size of a hummingbird than a fly. A part of me died filming this.

One cousin recently posted a picture of a cicada taco on social media. Evidently, she ate the nasty thing. She told us that cicadas are crunchy. *BARF!!!*

I suggested that my cousins and I get a cicada tattoo to commemorate the trip. I generously offered to pay for anyone who dared get a cicada taco tramp stamp. So far, no takers.

My Dad’s Weird House

On that same cicada-taco-eating side of the family is my dad (pictured), who lives in what was his grandparent’s house. It’s historic, built in the 1800s, and has been in our family for nearly 100 years. (Slight exaggeration, but all family stories are slightly exaggerated, AMIRITE?!)

My dad’s house, serving American Gothic vibes.
American Gothic, which I’ve seen IRL in Chicago and which blew my hair back. I can’t remember ever being so moved by art in my life. Serves major Rocky Horror Picture Show vibes.
A scene from Rocky Horror, which references American Gothic 3 times and is one of my all-time favorite movies.

My dad’s house is a weird little place, with only one real bedroom and another that’s basically a walkway to the bathroom. (Bathroom was an add-on many years ago because outhouses were used when the house was built.) I often wonder how it housed so many children over the years, one of whom was my great-uncle Bud Isaacs.

Bud Isaacs is legendary in country music for inventing the pedal steel guitar, which is like a table with steel guitar strings on top and piano-like pedals below that makes that twangy country sound (listen here). Inducted into the Country Music Hall of Fame, uncle Bud is unquestionably the most famous person in my family.

His story sounds like a movie plot: He left home at age 16, hopped a freight train to Nashville, and got hired as a performer at the Grand Ole Opry. However, once the folks at the Opry found out his true age, they sent him back to Indiana—to the very house that my dad lives in today. According to lore, Bud used door hinges and other spare parts he found around the house to create what would become the pedal steel, thereby changing the sound of country music forever.

The Weird Midwest

In summertime in the Midwest it doesn’t get dark until about 10 PM, so people get weird. I got called a skank at the local grocery store for nicely asking to go around a woman who was blocking the entire aisle with her cart. I LOL’d and texted my sister that I’ve still got it. #skanklyfe

This picture was taken at 9:30 PM. The “fog” in the background is actually humidity. 94% humidity to be exact. Not even my Brazilian Blowout can withstand that amount of moisture. (Mushroom hair, kinda care.) And shout out to my grandma’s manfriend Tom, who was nearly taken by “the COVID” but is recovering and enjoying Goose Island IPA once again.

We visited an animal sanctuary.

The sanctuary is on the other side of this cute Bridges of Madison County-style bridge.
Alexa, play Buffalo Stance by Neneh Cherry

And we did what every 5-year-old wants to do, and that’s GO ANTIQUING!

Antiquing in the Midwest is epic. People keep shit forever, and they don’t charge a lot of money for it. You can find all kinds of collectables, like a vermeil brooch I bought for $5 that I 100% will never wear. Or this very cute Sherlock Holmes-inspired hat that my child hated.

My Grandma’s Weird House

Speaking of things people don’t need, no trip to the Midwest is complete without a trip to my maternal (non-cicada-taco-eating side of the family) grandmother’s house, which is bursting at the seams with weird-ass stuff, which I’ve featured before. She used to own an antique mall, so she uses that as an excuse for her hoarding. Taxidermy abounds, and I found a hat (?) made of what I thought was human hair but she later confirmed to be horse hair. I guess that’s better.

In her defense, some things are cute and/or collectable. But others are just plain weird, like the Midwest itself.

Scary Santa for every season!
O.G. Barbie and O.G. me with braces
Horse-themed bathroom with sparkly wallpaper (actually quite precious but what some might deem an odd choice)
I actually bought these pillows for my grandma because they were so on-brand for her.
Grandma keeps everything, but I’ll be stealing these Colorforms to sell on Ebay after finding out they sell for hundreds of dollars.
Wrapping things up with a little grandma-style terror.

<<UPDATE>> My cousin thought everyone needed to know that the cicadas lay their eggs on tree branches then chew around the branch so it falls to the ground. The eggs then hatch and burrow into the ground until they re-emerge 17 years later. Here’s a picture of that in action.


5 responses to “Pee Wee’s Big Midwestern Adventure 2”

  1. Kerrie Resendes Avatar
    Kerrie Resendes

    Yahoo! A new post.

    I LOVE the disclaimer.


    Liked by 1 person

  2. Proud to be part of your weird ass midwestern family fun!! Love me some Grammies and Rocky Horror Picture Show!!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Haha! Love you, you big weirdo!


  3. […] Try to book first thing in the morning. Otherwise, the app may say that Oga’s is at capacity <red arrow>. Join the walk-up list anyway <blue arrow> and hopefully get a stand-by time. Ours was 30 minutes, which was easy to kill in Galaxy’s Edge. Oga’s Cantina, AKA “the Star Wars bar” How we all felt midday Faux taxidermy at Oga’s that I photographed specifically for my crazy grandma […]


  4. […] and warm, like a hip grandma’s house (although not like MY grandma’s house because her house is weird). And wallpaper for me is […]


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: